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Thursday, April 28, 2011

Very Short Post; But Very Irritated TTCer.

You know what burns my biscuits?
The women who, in infertility/trying to conceive discussion boards, post their "ooh I'm pregnant" stories.

Number 1: 98% of us don't know you; therefore, leading into....
Number 2: 98% of us don't care.
Number 3: the 2% that do know you; would probably rather it not be rubbed in their face either.

Honestly. As a woman struggling with infertility, how did YOU feel about women like yourself shoving their baby bumps in your face? Likely, not too thrilled.

I am bitter. I'm fully aware of this. So, don't judge.

They have discussion boards dedicated to your kind; so give us, the unchosen ones, a break.
Gee wizz.

Monday, April 25, 2011

On to Plan B? Psh! More Like Plan Z.

Well; I have approximately three months before my dear husband gets home from deployment. So, I decided that since most Traditional Chinese Medicine takes around about three months to build up in your system; I figured I would give it a shot. Nothing to lose, right? I went down to the Herbal Alternatives store in the next town over to see what I could get my hands on. Came home with some Fish Oil, Dong Quai, Maca, and Royal Jelly. I was really excited; until I opened them all up and took a wiff. The comination of fish food, roasted marshmellows, and bloody mary's over took my senses. I have a very sensitive sense of smell.. so, this should be interresting.

For my fellow TTC-er's: here are some of the benefits of the above mentioned traditional chinese medicines and herbs. I'm anxious to see how things play out.

Omega-3 Fish Oil: Pretty basic every day supplement; generally taken for heart and joint health. When it comes to TTC-ers and pregnant women, it helps avoid pregnancy-induced hypertension (pre-eclampsia) and gestational diabetes. Long-chain Omega-3 fatty acids are critical for fetal brain development to provide your child the best possible mental advantage coming into this world. The fetus’ need for DHA is greatest in the last trimester of the pregnancy as fetal brain cells are being created at a prodigious rate (more than 250,000 nerve cells per minute). If you don’t have adequate supplies of DHA in your body, your fetus’ brain is going to have trouble keeping up with the growing demand for DHA building blocks. Thus, pregnancy is a critical time to take fish oil supplements. Also, with Omega-3 fish oil women carry children longer preventing premature birth.

Dong Quai Root: (should not be taken during pregnancy) Main benefits-


  • Menopause treatment;


  • Fertility treatment;


  • Speeding recovery from childbirth;


  • Herbal tonics for women;


  • Chronic rhinitis and post nasal drip;


  • Painful menstrual periods;


  • Excessively heavy vaginal bleeding;


  • Herpes zoster;


  • Uterine fibroid tumors;


  • Hypertension;


  • Blood tonic;


  • Fibrocystic Breast Condition;


  • Chronic inflammation such as rheumatoid arthritis;


  • Common blood disorders such as anemia;


  • Allergies;


  • Constipation


  • Hepatitis


  • Headaches and migraines.




  • Royal Jelly: While there are a number of different "super foods" that have proven to be highly effective at helping with fertility, royal jelly is more than likely the reigning King…or Queen of the bunch. This nutrient dense substance is a secretion that comes from glands in young worker bees, and is used to not only create a queen bee for procreation, but is also fed to honey bee larvae to provide them with optimal health and growth. Royal Jelly is rich in amino acids, lipids, sugars, vitamins, and most importantly, proteins. It contains high levels of vitamins D and E, and also has ample levels of iron and calcium. The following are the main benefits of Royal Jelly:

    • To increase libido
    • Support egg health
    • Diminish and reduce the signs of aging
    • To reduce inflammation caused by illness or injury
    • To naturally boost the bodies immune system
    • To help treat auto-immune problems like non-rheumatoid arthritis

    Maca: Beneficial for men and women. Maca (Lepidium meyenii) is a root-like vegetable shaped like a turnip. It grows at 12,000 feet above sea level and is only found in the high Andes of Peru and Ecuador.
    For more than two millennia, native Peruvians have used maca root as food and medicine to promote fertility, endurance, energy, vitality, and sexual virilityMain benefits for Maca are:

  • Balance hormonal levels in women.


  • Increase libido in both men and women.


  • Increase egg health.


  • Increase seminal volume, sperm count per ejaculation, and sperm motility.

  • Who should use Maca? Those with:
    
    -Poor egg health
    -Endometriosis
    -PCOS
    -Recurrent miscarriages
    -Preparing for IVF
    -Infertility due to stress

    Saturday, April 23, 2011

    Fertile Foes

    When you have been TTC for as long as I have, you come across all sorts of colorful characters. I'd like you to meet some of them:

    The Chosen
    "We've been so blessed". Also known as, "God has chosen to bless us with children, but not you".

    The Professor
    You guessed it. The lady with all the answers. There is always one in particular you like to refer to as Dr. So and So to your husband when she's not around. And, of course, if you would just follow her instructions you would get pregnant in no time!

    The Bragger
    "We got pregnant right after I went off the pill." Uh huh, good for you! : /

    The One Percenter
    Birth control pills are 99% affective and she swears she never missed a pill. Can also be referred to as, The Odds Breaker.

    The Lucky Ones
    You've charted temperatures, kept track of your cycle days, quit drinking coffee, and what did she do? Nada. "The first time was a charm."

    The Virgin Mary
    Really? REALLY? You don't know how it happened??

    Facebook
    Yes, I really refer to this one as Facebook. You know.. the networker. It was really easy for her, but she has a friend who's cousin's boss has the same problem you do.

    The Every Day Partier
    I don't even want to go into much detail about the one's who were so drunk they "don't even remember doing the deed". Yeah, as I sit here and enjoy my diet of water, OJ, and unsweetened tea.. I don't care to think about this one too much.

    And drum roll please....

    The Ultimate Fertile Foe
    The friend, and I use that word very lightly, who calls you up to see if you could recommend a specialist for her co-worker who has been trying unsuccessfully for.. get ready... a whole TWO months. Good grief; I can't imagine what that poor girl is going through!


    I'm being a tad bit bitter about things today..


    Friday, April 22, 2011

    I Would Die For That

    I know that I have this posted on my sidebar; but I am pretty positive that it will tug on everybody's heartstrings in one way or another. (grab a tissue or two!)::::::::::::::: I Would Die For That By:Kellie Coffey


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    Will Work For Baby!

    Surprise!

    So, I call the infertility clinic I have been going to for over a year to schedule another Intrauterine Insemination(IUI) and can't. Why? Not because of insurance issues, not because they over-booked, but because they are closing down... next week! (Thank you by the way, Dr. YOUknowWHOyouARE, for the notice! boo!) Lucky me: I get to start all over with my testing, procedures, you know.. all that good stuff. The oh so tentative clinic won't release my records. To top things off, they inform me that our health insurance doesn't cover In Vitro Fertilization (IVF). We have done IUI after IUI.. after IUI, for the past four years and it's starting to look like IVF is our next option. To cut to the chase: as you may know IVF is just a tad bit expensive so I re-opened my store. See link below. And yes, I am desperate!


    CLICK THE HOODIE (:


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    Thursday, April 21, 2011

    You Know You're TTC When...


    Remember the good old days when you had no idea what cervical mucus was; you didn’t chart your temperature first thing in the morning and you never had a full emotional breakdown if your husband was unavailable during your peak ovulation period.
    Infertility has made you weird.(and maybe a little crazy).
    Remember the days when you used birth control pills so you wouldn’t get pregnant? When your older cousin announced her pregnancy and you didn’t burst into tears? When you would walk past a pregnant woman without glaring and feeling jealous of her baby bump? Your life has now changed. Oh, how it has changed.
    You now know your husband’s exact sperm count and the rate of his motility (which, luckily, in my case.. his boys were in perfect shape) You now use words like ‘cervical mucus’ and ‘ovulation’ as if they are common words (I think I saw cervical mucus last month so I guess I ovulated. Do you think I could be pregnant, co-worker who I don’t really know?). You now have fertility medication in your refrigerator, right next to the milk and last night’s leftover quiche (Dinner time! Tonight we’re having meatloaf or Progesterone). You google all your fake pregnancy symptoms including (and not limited to): I have a cold. Am I pregnant? Strange twitches on left side. Am I pregnant? My right breast feels more swollen than my left. Am I pregnant already?
    1. You sob every time someone posts a belly photo on Facebook.
    2. A pregnancy announcement from your friend or a complete stranger can send you into an equal depression.
    3. You have fertilityauthority.com and whythehellamInotpregnant.com bookmarked on your computer.
    4. You refuse to buy tampons/pads, just in case you might be pregnant this month (and your underwear suffers).
    5. You stop drinking coffee/soda and then drink as much as you can once your period arrives.
    6. Seeing a drop in your basal temperature makes you inconsolably upset.
    7. You listen to Michael Bolton songs and it makes you think of your infertility journey.
    8. You feel relieved to see another woman carry a tampon into a bathroom stall. 
    Infertility has made your weird. But it’s not your fault. Blame infertility.
    Laughatfertility


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    Goalie

    Childhood Goals For When I 'Grew Up': 
    • Find Mr. Perfect
    • Get Married
    • <-- insert first child
    • First Family Pet
    • Buy House
    • <-- insert second child (optional)
    • Buy a Bigger House


    After all, fertility issues could never happen to you, right?

    Psh, next thing you know you're white knuckled pushing your grocery cart and crying.. I mean, rushing down the diaper isle for fear you might fall under the spell of that big blue eyed baby on the package and go into a completely uncontrollable sob fest. Your grocery list consists of the usual eggs, milk, bread crumbs, and ovulation predictor kits.Then spending way over your food budget due to the simple fact that you're dreading the check-out line because every magazine cover has a forty-something celebrity holding twins.
    So, we continue playing goalie. Getting defensive and blocking out all that crap.
    We will eventually get the win.


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